Every year we have it at my house. This year as years past it shall be again. However this time I find myself at odds with some of the family.

My sister/hubby will not becoming this year. Cause I cannot be two-faced about things. My niece (sisters daughter) is dating/living with a "illegal" alien. I cannot bring myself to invite him. Of course my niece is still welcome. So my sister will not come.

I would feel like a traitor to this site and myself, if I were to invite him. Anyone else going up against this kind of turmoil. My wife thinks I am being mean. Even though she doesn't want any type or form of amnesty. isn't it "amnesty" if I invite them directly into my house hold.

Am I right or wrong in my decision ?

Just my ramblings on a crappy day.